Readers Questions | Is My Return To Me Candle Spell Working Right?

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 18th, 2009 in Readers Questions | Comments Off on Readers Questions | Is My Return To Me Candle Spell Working Right? Hello Ms. Jacqueline, I did email the same situation a few weeks ago wasnt sure if it went through. Over the past two years making three this coming September. Me and this man have been through HELL. We met September of 2006. We seem as if we were just friends, but started to get intimate and closer. The man is seven years older than me. As the months passed he began to still be around, but at certain times. He had an anti-social attitude towards to me, but never wanted to completely leave me. To make a long story short. September 16, 2008 we were legally tore apart (Restraining Order). Something inside pushed me just find out about who was coming between us or who was getting most of his time. I found that out. A few weeks before thanksgiving I seeked some advice from spiritual advisor. She read me and she was the third to tell me that this man loves me and I love him. Saying we were soulmates. For those two months we were apart I had no success with any other men. The advisor and the other two I had seen began to tell me that the girl has been doing evil things against me and my lover to keep us apart.She has us confused with eachother and upset. I let the lady do some work for me in which we were reunited, but before Valentine’s Day he had began to act weird again. I went on and purchased some charms she recommended and then it still failed. He had me a Valentine’s Day gift, but he was again suffering from being under her spell. He is worse off than me, because the girl is randomly over there. I began burning candles at this local candle shoppe, because my advisor wanted more money than i was even thinking about spending the third time. I feel she was taking advantage of my commitment to him. I’ve been burning this candle to reverse the evil, bring us back together, spell breaker, and bend over. I’ve been wondering like if she is doing this spell against his will and my will. We both belong together and nine advisors so far have told me that is it possible that my candles will help us against whateverer workshe is doing? The girl is persistent from what I’m told. Once she seen I was fighting back she is just working fast and hard. They also say the girl knew me before I actually met her. It’s so frustrating, because I’ve never done no one anything. So, this week makes week three for those candles. I did receive a phone call from him on Monday March 16, 2009. He still seem confused. So, I just wanted to know possibly how long will I have to fight for mine? I’ve heard she is a walking demon. She looks all crazy and just stares. On top of all the confusion he don’t want her and she doesn’t want him. I was told by advisors it is to keep us unhappy, because we enjoy one another. She just likes to see him confused and not knowing if he’s coming or going. Thanks so much for reading my question! Torey Dear Torey, My concern here is that you first have gone through a few spiritual advisors and seem to not have much success. Second, since I have no idea of what the other advisor prescribed in the way of candle work that has not been successful for you. Let me explain. Each spiritual intercessor or worker has their own belief system and instruction that they have...

Faith and Intention in Your Candle Burning Spells

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 16th, 2009 in Beginners Candle Spells, Readers Questions, Special Announcements | Comments Off on Faith and Intention in Your Candle Burning Spells Readers, It has occurred to me that lately I have had many, many letters regarding the time of waiting during the candle burning for candle spell work. I am not sure if it is just a sign of the times, but I thought I should reiterate and explain time and intention when setting lights for a particular candle spell. Perhaps I can address everyone’s  concerns in this manner and also alleviate many others’ potential thoughts as well. First, we should address whether the candle spell is warranted or not. Burning a candle because your sister-in-law is a female dog and acts like a floozy or your neighbor parks his car in your parking space in the apartment complex is not a reason for ‘setting lights’ or burning a candle on their name on a petition paper. Save your energy and let the sister-in-law be and talk to the manager about your parking space. Real, successful candle burning spell magic is about activating changes in your life and the lives of others. It is about harnessing that energy of that pain, hurt and anger and channeling or infusing the candle, oil, herbs, sachets and any other item used in the candle spell to charge those items. Now, I am not excusing bad behavior from next door neighbors, boyfriends and the receptionist at your job – we need to call a duck a duck – but it is more that you want to have an ‘incident’ happen to them so that they will ‘wake up and get a clue’, so to speak. Of course, I will always stand by doing the ‘right’ thing, like addressing loud music at all hours of the night with management or the police and those ‘Oopsie’ missed messages that you were waiting to be delivered from Miss I -Have-No-Brain-Between-My-Ears-or-Do-I? at the front desk. Always, ALWAYS go through the correct channels, however P.C. they are, then do your candle work after the proper authorities were notified. So, with all this, how do we get ‘in the mood’ to energize our candles correctly for a successful outcome? First, take a long bath, if needed. Get the grime of the office, kids, traffic, BILLS, off your mind, chest, back and head. Soak in Epsom Salts, two cups is recommended, and lie there until the water gets COLD. Then, dress comfortably in loose clothing and set all your items, tools and oils out on your table. Sit and just open a bottle of condition oil you will use and BREATHE DEEPLY in the essential oils that will be the catalyst to your intended outcome. Carve initials in the candles, make well holes in the candle for oil to be held, write petition papers, including names, telephone numbers – WHATEVER you need to identify the ‘intended victim’ in the candle spell. Take your time in creating a candle spell, all good things take time to stew, mingle, adhere and coagulate. Oil your candles, gripping them tightly while chanting or stating your intention to them. If they are “taper” or “free standing” type of candles, roll them in sachet powder, herbs or whatever you want to ‘kick it up a notch’ for a successful candle burn. If they are the 7-day “Novena type” vigil candles in glass, anoint the top wax area. Set your flameproof dish or saucer, place all the necessary petition papers, personal items or business cards under the candle and light with INTENTION (i.e. “I, Olive Olivia Oyl, light this candle with the intention that Popeye will stop sailing the ocean blue and settle down with me and Sweet Pea.”). NOTE: You must, absolutely MUST, state your intention like you...

Saint Joseph’s Day Altar | March 19, 2009 – Petition Candles

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 13th, 2009 in Special Announcements | Comments Off on Saint Joseph’s Day Altar | March 19, 2009 – Petition Candles Order your white 7 -day novena type petition candle for your husband, father, stepfather, grandfather, brother or even for a single mother who is taking care of the family with assistance from a spouse.  Each order will include a gift of fava beans and a prayer card with complete instructions on how to use the fava beans to bring in Good Luck. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Readers Questions | How to Break Up a Couple

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 11th, 2009 in Readers Questions | Comments Off on Readers Questions | How to Break Up a Couple Jacqueline, I believe that me and my ex boyfriend broke up because of a spell that his new girlfriend placed on him. He states he still loves me and he thinks they did something as well. What candles can I use to break that spell and bring him back to me? Natalie I am sorry to heat this – not only for you but (and in a lesser amount) sorry for the ‘other woman’ that has to use candle magic or other items to ‘get her man’. A couple of questions come to mind – why would your boyfriend come in contact with this other woman? Are they co-workers? Is she (or he) desperate? Unsettled? Restless? I cannot tell you how many clients I see in regards to love – because of some tomfoolery going on with one of the couple. So I would first ask you to think about this – how was the relationship going BEFORE the breakup? ‘She’ might offer something you don’t – or won’t do. This is alright if you have a Code of Standards in which you use to guide your life. It is OK to NOT do something you are being forced to do by threat or pressure, if you do not what to do it. Is he just irresponsible and maybe his leaving is a true ‘blessing’? No offense, but some behaviors are more noticeable when you are standing on the sideline – kind of like when you pull the magnifying glass back, you can see the whole pattern in the leaf – not just one cell. Another thing to consider is how long has your boyfriend been gone? I had a client once that waited over three months to begin candle work. So, if you want to get your lover back, you will have to work as many days as it has been since they left you. Believe me, the hardest candle spell (and the most costly) are when lovers have been apart for years – due to their hard heads sometimes – before getting back. Remember the longer apart – the harder it is to get them back. OK after all that, I am going to assume that your relationship was fine and will offer these ideas: 1. You can do a honey jar on him, using ANY personal item that might have DNA on it – toothbrush bristle, razor with hair, hairbrush, old clothes (preferably unwashed), underwear, sweaty tee shirt, Q – tip, snot rag – ANYTHING that you can use to plop in a honey jar to designate HIM. Use two matching lodestones (a ‘male’ lodestone is pointy, rugged and a ‘female’ lodestone is curved, rounded). Use something of your (again – hair, part of your soiled panties, cigarette butt wrapper, lipstick on tissue) and USING ONLY A PART OF THIS ITEM (about a 1 inch square). Write your petition paper and place that on bottom of jar, add personal objects of the both of you, then cover with honey, Karo syrup, brown sugar, white sugar – any sweeteners that you want.  Fill to brim, cap jar, set in bowl and begin lighting free standing pink candles, votive candles or tea lights on top of the lid (see jar here for idea). The idea here is to ‘sweeten’ him up to draw him back and not using any ‘revenge’ type energy in getting him back. 2. You can use a Male and Female Figural Candle and burn them for results. You will need these two candles, a bottle of “Break Up” Condition Oil, a large knife that you bought at the dollar discount store and a plate...

Readers Questions | More About Popping Noises with Honey Jar Candle

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 11th, 2009 in Honey Jar Spells for Love, Readers Questions | Comments Off on Readers Questions | More About Popping Noises with Honey Jar Candle Michael, a reader that inquired a couple of weeks ago about ‘popping’ noises with his honey jar candle love spell, not only gave us his ingredients, but fabulous photos and a link to some video he shot with the noises clearly audible and the wick splitting into two! Amazing! You may use this link to go to this video he created of the candle burning, along with popping noises! http://tinypic.com/usermedia.php?uo=2kaonNSDdqShNFkc3TrttA%3D%3D Michael asked me to give some observations about his candle and it is evident that this was for love, and he indicated that he used pictures of him and her, hairs, rose petals and lodestones. The interesting thing is how the one wick separated into two flames (see photo). this is a VERY good sign that you will be successful in love with this young lady. My only thought is that you ‘temper’ the honey jar with either covering the red with a white candle, or the next candle you burn be a pink one. Again, remember red is energy, intense and hot, and you don’t want your new relationship to ‘run red hot’ – or, that you are so sensually overstimulated that there is nothing else but the physical, if you know what I mean. You need affection and romance (pink) and appreciation for each others’ minds (white). So, to keep this relationship more than just the sexual, I would alternated the red with either pink or white candles. Good Luck and keep us posted on when the wedding date has been set!...

Candle Spell Candle Preparation Step By Step for Candleburning Success!

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 10th, 2009 in Beginners Candle Spells, Proper Candle Preparation | Comments Off on Candle Spell Candle Preparation Step By Step for Candleburning Success! Today, I am going to go over step-by-step the proper method of cleaning a candle for a candle spell. Recently, I was preparing a candle for a client and encountered a few items that I may not have covered in previous posts regarding candle preparation. Here is the steps, with photos, to ensure candle spell success! First step is to clean the candle with Florida Water. You my also want to use Lemon Juice, or even a combination of using one first, such as the lemon juice (to ‘Cut and Clear’ out any negative vibes), then follow it with Florida Water (to bring in the ‘Good Spirits’). The traditional Florida Water known by most is made by Lanman and Kemp, but I picked this bottle up at our neighborhood ethnic foods store. It is made by Goya Products, which is a large manufacturer of products and foods for Caribbean cultures. Make sure to clean both inside the candle (inner glass area, wax top and wick) and also the outside glass area. As I was cleaning, I found something embedded in the wax from the factory where they were produced. I took a small, sharp pointed knife and cut out the offending stuff. This would be a good time to trim the wick to two inches. Wipe down your candle again, you can NEVER be too clean. Another thought is this, you do not know if the owner of the Botanica or Candle Shop where you purchased these candle might be pre-blessing/anointing these candle to PURPOSELY not bring success to you, so that you will return over and over to purchase candles that have been ‘tuned’ to fail! There has been more than one unscrupulous shop owner out there in the world! Now, it is time to anoint the candle with the appropriate condition oil. We are doing a “Road Opener” candle spell for our client, so the candle color matches the Road Opener Oil that we are using. You can see my table, with petition papers, photographs, my box of condition and anointing oils, various tools and shipping boxes to mail candles to clients who want to burn their candles themselves. Now it is time to evenly distribute the oil over the top of the candle, pray over it and infuse it with intention and then attach the clients photo to the front of their candle. This candle will then go on my All Saints Altar, when I have candle going for clients 24 hours a day, 7 days a week! There you have it! Step by Step instructions on how to properly clean, anoint, bless and create a candle for candle spell burning success!    ...

Full Moon on Tuesday 03/10 – Order your Reversible Candles Today!

Posted by Jacqueline on Mar 9th, 2009 in Reversible Candles | Comments Off on Full Moon on Tuesday 03/10 – Order your Reversible Candles Today! Order your Reversible Candles to by burned for you today as the Full Moon is tomorrow, Tuesday, March 10, 2009. The Full Moon is beneficial for reversing, returning to sender, chasing away, casting off and sending away any negative vibes from bothersome people and people who wish you bad luck. Send that Bad Luck off with a Reversible Candle burned for you today!...