Jacqueline,
Just a quick note, I read on another site if you break up suddenly without provoction then you may have someone read cards and see if there is magic involved. My husband and I broke up suddenly and after some weird things that routinely happened to us (he would become irate on Thursdays and I would be so sad on Thursday and we would be alright come Friday morning)I had someone throw the cards and it came out that his girlfriend was keeping him with magic love and other spells and was putting on us to seperate and binding me. So I’ve been behind in the magic game for some 5 years, and I’m just now fighting back and trying to break through…And it’s been said that nothing worth while was easy.
…I’ve heard that tea made from Star Anise is suppose to bring your lover back…so you may need to bump up your game…candles, bathes, teas, herbs it’s up to you in how much your willing to do. The candles feel you, talk to them throughout the day too. Don’t be afraid of your candles is the first advice I’d give anyone.
F.
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Dear F.
First, I am sorry that your husband broke up with you. Any family that is torn apart isn’t a good thing, whether there are children or not. This was a vow that was broken, and vows are something that it cosmically binding. Shame on the woman who is doing this to you. Apparently, either she feels she was ‘stolen’ from or has not enough confidence and self esteem to go out and get her own man, one who is available to boot!
Again, a candle spell is like a chocolate cake recipe; your Grandma might have used mayonnaise instead of eggs and mine might have put in a teaspoon of Nescafe, the general results is the same – it is a chocolate cake. Now, granted that if you are not being successful the first time, you might need to ‘tweak’ the recipe and add this item or exclude or substitute that one, but with dedication and desire for an outcome, you keep working at it.
There are some readers, not only the ones they lay cards, that can tell you if things are true or not. That is research that you will want to do on your own to get a comfortable feeling from the reader. In regards to your statement about ‘talking’ to your candles, I do and isn’t ‘talking’ tothem and reminding them what they are being burnedfor a little like a prayer?
I looked up some ideas about magic with Star Anise in the book by cat yronwode, “Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic” and for Star Anise it is written that it is used for to dream lucky and dream true and also to ward off envy and bring luck. In the book, it appears that Star Anise is to be carried, but since it is a spice that is consumable, you may be right about drinking it in a tea. Now, if you used the term ‘tea’ to mean a spiritual bath (and that word is used as well), your traditions you are taught by your root worker may be something that I have not learned. I would continue with your traditions and what you have been taught until you see their results, then make a decision.
Please keep us informed of your progress,
J.