Hi Jacqueline,
I am doing a red candle love spell on this gut I am seeing. We get together, then we don’t see each other for a few days, then we are together again. This is the reason I am doing to love spell. I want him around all the time. I read on here that I am to use pink candles and not red ones. Why is that? Please explain what I am doing wrong.
Thank you
Caprice
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Thank you for a good question. In my experience and education, a red candle is energetic and that energy is quick and all-consuming. Like a fire, it burns through anything fast! Red candles are used to “energize” a candle spell – for instance, when you need money in a hurry, you use a red candle or add a red candle to a green candle spell to give it a little more sense of urgency. In matters of love, red candles are considered to bring on the intimacy, but that might not be enough to keep him around after the lovin’ is over. Red candles are considered strictly to bring on a sexual element to your affair.
By using a pink candle, you are allowing peace, clarity and calmness to enter the relationship – you just can’t base a long lasting relationship on the physical alone. You need to get to know each others’ moods, knowledge, insight, courage, strength – all that are endearing qualities that make someone want to spend their life with you.
So does this mean that pink candles won’t bring on the steamy sessions in the bedroom? No – but your lovemaking will be more playful and tender, and you may see that he is not so “in a hurry” to run out the door!
Now, since you did not give much details, I AM assuming here that there has been some intimacy in your time together, but if it has not happened yet, then the pink candles will want him to stick around to “get to know you”, and not view you as just a “booty call”.
Use“Come to Me”, “Fire of Love”Anointing Oils to draw him back to you and “Adam and Eve”Anointing Oil to bring in sweetness on your pink candles.